I’m so very tired of listening to women complain how they have been used for just sex by a man when they allow themselves to be used and portrayed as sex symbols. There is one thing to be said about being confident in your appearance and another thing to be said about flaunting oneself in a degrading manner. When you do this all you have done is allow yourself to be treated as an object.
Not one woman is a victim when they allow themselves to be used over and over again for just sex by men. How can a man respect you when you give up sex too soon? Do not allow yourself to become a victim. Respect yourself and you fill find the man who respects you too. Men respect women who love and respect themselves.
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Rose DesRochersRose wears many hats. She's a wife, mother, respite worker, proud shih-tzu owner, blogger, published poet, freelance writer, as well as the owner and administrator of Today's Writing Community and Blogger Talk Blogging Community. Feel free to contact her with any questions you may have.Rose DesRochers has 1016 post(s) at Rose DesRochers – World Outside My Window
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Wrote: Aug 5, 2011 at 10:20 am
I am with you on this one, I have found if a man is willing to wait then he values you and has respect and cares, if he is not, he isn’t worth your time.
Wrote: Aug 13, 2011 at 7:01 pm
Totally agree, Rose, good post. If you have no objections, here’s a piece of whimsy from cosmic rapture on the subject:
For many men sex now and then
is less about the whether and more about the when.
In contrast, though, most women know that “no” means “no”
and less is more and fast is slow,
and if not now she’ll tell him when
the action can begin again.
cheers